The Verbally Abusive Relationship

The Verbally Abusive Relationship

How to Recognize It and How to Respond

eBook - 2010
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From the Publisher: In this fully expanded and updated third edition of the bestselling classic, you learn why verbal abuse is more widespread than ever, and how you can deal with it. You'll get more of the answers you need to recognize abuse when it happens, respond to abusers safely and appropriately, and most important, lead a happier, healthier life. In two all-new chapters, Evans reveals the Outside Stresses driving the rise in verbal abuse-and shows you how you can mitigate the devastating effects on your relationships. She also outlines the Levels of Abuse that characterize this kind of behavior-from subtle, insidious put-downs that can erode your self-esteem to full-out tantrums of name-calling, screaming, and threatening that can escalate into physical abuse. Drawing from hundreds of real situations suffered by real people just like you, Evans offers strategies, sample scripts, and action plans designed to help you deal with the abuse-and the abuser. This timely new edition of The Verbally Abusive Relationship, Expanded Third Edition puts you on the road to recognizing and responding to verbal abuse, one crucial step at a time!
Publisher: Avon, Mass. : Adams Media ; Newton Abbot : David & Charles [distributor], 2010
Edition: Expanded 3rd ed
ISBN: 9781440510946
Branch Call Number: eBOOK
BF637.V47 E93 2010eb
Characteristics: 1 online resource (239 p.)


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Nov 24, 2018

Shocking how common abuse is Must read for anyone who wonders why an innocent remark leads to a convoluted argument

Nov 17, 2018

Really eye opening!

Jan 14, 2018

This book is written primarily about romantic relationships, but I found it enormously helpful in understanding how my mother treated me throughout my lifetime (she died when I was 57). It really describes the more invisible forms of verbal abuse (such as discounting and withholding) as well as the more obvious. Emotional/verbal abuse of children by well-intentioned adults is really a norm in this society, and this book can be really useful in bringing this to light. A book that has helped me see what healthy parent-child relationships can be like is 'Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges' by Patty Wipfler and Tosha Schore.

Sep 11, 2015

Only 25 pages in, I ordered a copy from Amazon because I was running out of post-it notes. This is the book I have been longing for for 35 years! Finally someone who believes me! I am going to photo copy about 5 pages and send them to all my friends who tell me I am crazy. All our previous counselors gave exactly the wrong advice and told me my husband was damaged so patience is required. This book tells me he CHOOSES to be this way and my sympathy and patience is his winning. A must read for any woman who has to interact with any man who makes her feel stupid, worthless, or just inadequate in some way.

Bostonian67 Sep 03, 2011

I'm almost done reading this book and boy oh boy what an eye opener. Even though I left my verbally abusive husband years ago, the scars still remain. The positive thing is noticing whats happening and getting out of the relationship.


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Oct 31, 2015

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