The Mother Dance

The Mother Dance

How Children Change your Life

Book - 1998
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Baker & Taylor
Discusses how women see their relationships with family and friends change as children are born, grow, and eventually leave the nest

Blackwell North Amer
From the celebrated author of The Dance of Anger comes an extraordinary book about mothering and how it transforms us -- and all our relationships -- inside and out.

Writing from her dual perspective as psychologist and mother, Dr. Harriet Lerner puts the spotlight on how a woman is changed when she becomes a mother. Enlivened with personal tales and vivid case examples that run the gamut from hilarious to the heart-wrenching, The Mother Dance  spells out what happens to a woman when two become three... and four. We see why her new life is so different from his  -- and how children inevitably help us to discover things about ourselves and our partners that we would otherwise not know. Lerner shows us how kids call on us to grow up and are the best teachers of life's most profound spiritual lessons.

From birth to the empty nest, Lerner's own experience has taught her the basic lessons of motherhood: that we are not in control of what happens to our children; that most of what we worry about doesn't happen (though bad things happen that we fail to anticipate); and that our children will love us with all our imperfections if we can do the same for them.

Lerner helps us to distinguish what we can change (and how to do it), and when we need to surrender to the fact that our lives -- and our children's -- may not go as we expect or plan. With the insight, warmth and clarity that characterize all of Lerner's work, here is a gloriously witty and moving book about what it means to dance the mother dance.

& Taylor

A renowned family expert dispenses practical advice on how women see their relationships with family and friends change as children are born, grow, and eventually leave the nest, and includes many revealing and humorous personal stories to illustrate her points. $150,000 ad/promo. Tour.

Publisher: New York : HarperCollinsPublishers, c1998
Edition: 1st ed
ISBN: 9780060187682
Branch Call Number: HQ759 .L469 1998
Characteristics: p. cm


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